Unemployment can be uncomfortable subject

"Some of my friends are in the industry, so I like to talk to them to see if they possibly have any contacts or know of anything," he said.

Whether talking or listening, unemployment can be an uncomfortable subject. Peggy Post with the Emily Post Institute says the etiquette of this economy creates a difficult dance for many.

"The principles of etiquette are being considerate, being respectful and being honest. Those principles are more important than ever these days," she said.

If you're out of work, before asking a friend for help, feel out the situation. Filter what you say about your layoff and make sure any anger is gone. If you have an acquaintance on the job market, it's okay to acknowledge it and assist in any way you feel comfortable.

"Maybe you could help that person with a resume, or do some role playing with interviewing," she said.

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